Relationships

Being in a relationship is not all that easy and fun always. As a young boy in college, I never got into a relationship because I wanted to be in a relationship that actually would mean something to me. I did not wanna be in a relationship just for the sake of it. I used to think being in a relation would make life so beautiful. Thought being in a relationship will be the best thing that could happen to a person. Now that I am in a relationship, I don't think its always fun to be in one. There are a lot of things that are not the way you would have dreamt of.
Of course, being in a relationship is not all that bad either. It feels beautiful and a lot of fun when things are going great. The times you go out together, the movies you watch together, the times you talk for hours together, messaging each other till late in the night, staying up all night chatting with each other. Its like the times you wanna cherish forever.Guess being in a relationship has its own pros and cons. Let's try list them down

Pros:

• You know there is someone who is there for you.
• You know there is someone who is interested in little little things of your life.
• You know there is someone who enjoys listening to these little little things of your life when others would rubbish it off.
• You know there is someone who wants the best for you.
• You know there is someone who will fight the world if he/she knows that you are right.
• You know there is someone who cares for you more than anything in the world.
• You know there is someone who understands you, who understands there is something wrong behind the fake smile you putting up.
• You know there is someone who is listens to your heart and mind and not to what you say.
• You know there is someone you can talk to when you are down.
• You know there is someone you can crib/bitch/complain about anyone or anything.

Cons:

Guess there aren't too manys flip sides of being in a relationship. Or atleast, I can't think of many. But the thing that bothers me most is that it can kinda move you away from important people in your life. I love my friends and I think being in a relationship can keep you away from your friends at times. I am not cribbing about it but it just what I feel. You do not get time to spend with your friends. I kind of think a lot about what my friends feel. You do not wanna do anything that will hurt or make them feel bad in anyway. At the same time, you do not wanna hurt your gal also. It’s kinda a difficult dilemma to be in.

Guess that’s how life is supposed to be. You cannot have the cake and eat it as well. With all good things come things you just do not like. But you still accept the good thing as you know it is worth it. :-)